Actually the texts from me were informative and businesslike. I did reassure him that Ryan was in excellent care. It has always been his way, though, and that of OW to point out ANYTHING that they could find in others that was not perfect. Made them feel better about themselves.
These days Ex & OW spend every other w/e babysitting. Her son (15 at the time she bailed on him to be with my husband) has fathered 2 kids with 2 different women of which he is in no relationship. During his every other w/e visitation - he hands the kids over to his mother. Good parenting all around. (tongue in cheek). I don't think Ex knew what he was getting into. Makes me kind of smile. My kids are just incensed at his talk of his "grandchildren". They say to one another "You got a kid? Nope - me neither. How can he have grandchildren?" Then they laugh at the aburdity of it. Oh well.
