Tallula- You are right, I don’t know how someone would want to repair the R but still want to contact OP. That puts the LBS who most likely have trust issues in a loop. I do believe both people have to really want it and I hope in time if I get to that point, I am able to have my boundaries set and able to enforce them like you. I guess no guarantees even if the WAS wants to repair the M or R, both will be in the same page with a real common goal. That is one of the toughest thing for me to accept and deal with is the uncertainty of all this.
Me:36,W:37 M:8, T:13 S:3yo, D:10yo (mine) BD 10/12 and 01/13 DBing since 02/13 W moved out 8/13