Good luck when you talk to him - be calm (hard I know) and very clear about what you want. Don't let him turn things around on you - they can be very good at that!
Your H may have to finally face the consequences of his actions. His problem.
Let us know how it goes. We'll be thinking of you
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."