I agree that love is not merely a noun but a verb. It requires action. It means choosing to love, even when it's not easy and even when you cannot think of a "reason" for loving someone.
Sometimes our spouses do Not act "loving" or "lovable" - but we choose to love them, anyhow.
This^^^ I accept & believe.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016