H just phoned.

EXTREMELY pleasant - "Was there something you wanted to talk with me about?"

Told him I'd thought this would be more of a face to face thing but that if he preferred....

When he realized what the topic was (playing dumb I think he was (yoda speak)) he too decided face to face prob better.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.