I know I'm keying on every little thing that W is doing at this point - which I need to get away from - but based on when we last spoke on Tuesday, she asked if we can talk today and I assumed that would have been at our house. As I mentioned, she had stopped by the house that day while I was at work and rather then take more stuff, she basically got a change of clothes and actually picked up her wedding ring which she left when she left on Saturday. Without reading into everything too much, a lot of that seemed promising to me because I felt that if she was hell-bent on moving out she'd start the process given that opportunity and not bring stuff home or leave things she would need there.
I just got a text a little while ago: "Can we just meet for dinner somewhere. I don't really feel like going to the house."
I haven't responded yet but while her initial point of wanting to talk today didn't imply anything good or bad and I was doing my best not to jump to any conclusions, I can only think this is going to go bad.
My original plan for our "talk" was to let her lead the conversation. If she just wanted to get together then cool. If she started to talk about our marriage, issues or divorce then I was going to simply say that I'm not sure how ready she is for this conversation but I don't believe I am. I'd rather that we both take time and space to let things settle before we got into anything heavy.
With her latest text, I'm not sure what to think and it's making me rethink my approach.
M: 29 W: 29 T: 12 years M: 4 years Discovered OM: 02/10/12 ILYBNILWY: 03/01/12 W Moves Out: 05/04/12 Reconciliation Starts: 09/06/12 In-house Separation (Again): 03/09/13
