Not confused anymore...just anxious and emotional

[BRNR]

Not sure that I was a fixer 100% of the time...maybe only when I was asked?

But yes, at this point, it is safe to say that I don't/didn't push too hard on the sitch of helping him while he was sick. But I will say he sent many text saying thank you for checking in on him and bringing him food the one night when I did, so I am going to take it at face value that my efforts were appreciated and not a deterent....