Originally Posted By: Bel123
How long has it taken for most to detach?

When you truly detach, do these mood swings go away?


I think it totally depends on the individual. Every situation is a little different and people are unique. It's been 2 years since BD for me and I'm still not detached, but W and I still live together and sleep in the same bad, so it's difficult.

That said, it does get a little easier every day. I still feel sad sometimes, or lonely, but I don't spend a lot of time there. It comes, I acknowledge it, and I move on with my day.

Focus on you and the things you can control and hang in there.


M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13