Originally Posted By: Bel123
How did you decide what to work on first btw?


I knew I was insecure, and I knew this caused an awful lot of problems so it was pretty easy for me to focus on that. I'd honestly thought a lot about it over the year or two prior to BD. That said, I had no idea how this bled over into so many other "issues." It's a bit like peeling an onion....there is layer upon layer when it comes to this stuff.

A few that Mach1 asked me to think about (and they all applied):

Jealousy
Insecurities
Controlling behavior
Judgmental behavior
Superiority behavior
Criticism

So you mentioned anger and controlling...what are you doing differently here?


M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13