I knew I was insecure, and I knew this caused an awful lot of problems so it was pretty easy for me to focus on that. I'd honestly thought a lot about it over the year or two prior to BD. That said, I had no idea how this bled over into so many other "issues." It's a bit like peeling an onion....there is layer upon layer when it comes to this stuff.
A few that Mach1 asked me to think about (and they all applied):