For anyone following this, I have moved over to the MLC Forum.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2327925#Post2327925

Me 38 H 39
M13 T18
S6
S9
Bomb Drop 11/11
Moved Out 7/12
Still have hope.
No OW that I know of..