My H is similar. I think they are both still to scared of everyone's reaction to "go public". But the bounds of decency just don't seem to register to these people. She commented on our vacation photos. Of course, this was months before I knew about it, but really?!
Big HUGS!!! For me, the more this stuff happens (my idiot H left out a birthday card she gave him on his counter. And he had lead me to believe it was over with them) the more close to done I am. I don't know what would need to happen to erase the hurt over the repeated disrespect and disregard for my feelings.
You handled that amazing!! It's so hard to not flip your stuff and lower yourself to their level.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
