This process [censored] so much. One minute I can be feeling great and have a great outlook of the future and a mentality of whatever happens, happens and the next I feel like crap because of W’s action or lack of action. I know it shouldn’t be this way. I should be able to control my feelings and now let her affects me but is that really possible?

In my heart I know detaching is the key and I tell myself that every day but putting that in practice is a different story.

How long has it taken for most to detach?

When you truly detach, do these mood swings go away?


Me:36,W:37
M:8, T:13
S:3yo, D:10yo (mine)
BD 10/12 and 01/13
DBing since 02/13
W moved out 8/13