There's some great info here, thanks. My WAW & I are now D. I wish I would have learned about this site a year ago. We have been D for 11 months. While the OM is gone, she rapidly went through several more and has had the same BF for 8 months now.
She has not grieved the R at all. I think she's still in the fog. As for me, I did everything wrong (needy, clingy, begging) during the D and after. I'm just starting to GAL & move on. I'm hopeful for reconciliation one day but realize she will have go make it through the fog on her own.
Me: 48 EW: 40 D8, D12 Married 13 wonderful years D in Apr-12
