You've got to stop dwelling on things. The anger is HER anger. It's not yours. There's no sense in you trying to figure that out. Bottom line is that it isn't YOU that's causing her anger it's herself.
You've spent most of the threads trying to figure your W out. What have you done in the meantime to rebuild your self-esteem? You haven't done much because you're still acting stuck and you're not even together.
Let it go.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.