I can relate. My H said that he doesn’t want legal divorce yet. He didn’t me give a time frame either.

I think it is disrespectful of your H to spend money in sex shop knowing that you would see the charges in the card. I guess he is truly absorbed in himself and doesn’t understand the boundaries. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Try not to think about this. I don’t really know what I would do in this situation, so I cannot give you any advice.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state