So why on earth would W have her L spell out in 3 separate letters since Nov that W does not have any OM in her life with the caveat "not that it is relevant to the situation"? The last letter was last week. Why the adamant denial of anyone else in her life? My L said when he spoke with her L that W had said I keep accusing her. I swear I have not said anything of the sort. I said something in Oct that was in reference to her A that she did have. Nothing else at all. My L is perplexed that they keep insisting on this denial. We thought that was dealt with last year. Now she accused me last night of spending too much time with the kids and was bitter i had them New Years Eve. wtf? she took them away for a couple of days over the Holidays and is taking them next week too for 3 days (plus she cant afford it) but she is PO'd about NYE and being home alone and sputs that to me in front of the kids over 2 months later? I am the one mostly left alone. she and i better get used to it and GAL. The only time i get with them is to drive them, look after them, homework etc etc ?.. an hour here or an hour there, church and the odd movie. I had them Superbowl Sunday....that was a month ago. Never a set of days on end with them etc. Is she looking at a different calendar than I? What a litigious mess. Financials are a mess. Kids are a mess. W is a mess. Extended families are a mess. Friends are a mess.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.