Had a strange experience today that indicated to me that I've reached some sort of level of detachment.
Still feel the need to post about it - I suppose that shows I'm not 'over' him/it yet... but REALLY, there have to be limits to what people have to put up with, don't there?
What do you all think?
I pull out of our local supermarket and stop at the traffic lights.
At the cafe, right out on the sidewalk in the 40 degree centigrade heat, sit OW and stbx. They are the only occupants of the sidewalk tables. Everyone else is inside the air-con cafe.
She sees my car and smirks at me. Immediately tells stbx that I'm there. He's sitting in his chair with his back to me. I'm stuck at the red light for what seems like 10 mins, right next to them. OW keeps talking to him and smiling. She pours him a drink from the bottle they have on their table and then she runs her hand right up his thigh. She looks at me again and smirks.
I drive away eventually but look in my rear view to see STBX look after my car.
I should point out that this took place in a village-suburb where all the parents of our 2 kids live and shop at this supermarket and cafe. They seem to be going to great lengths to display themselves in public.
To me, this is just off behaviour. To be flaunting themselves like this where all our kids' friends and parents can see them without us even being D-ed.
Anyway, I just drove on by. Good for me, I suppose. Felt sort of dead inside.
What was that quote about OW being the bacteria that feeds on the fungus that lives on the pond scum?
Wanted to see what you guys thought.
People shouldn't behave like this should they?
Why do they want to do this to the kids and me? Ok, fine, have a relationship with someone else, but to do it on our doorstep and so publicly.
IDK..... What happened to basic human decency?
As I write, my home phone has just started ringing. I know it's him because it's rung 4X straight and he'd know I've just arrived home. I'm not answering.
