Nothing wrong with throwing in the towel, she has done so already. Just be sure you're doing it because that's what you really want versus in reaction to your current pain. The pain gets better.
I would try going dark for 6-8 weeks before making any ultimatums.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
