Unlearning conflict avoidance 3

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I agree with Advina, passive aggression is not the path to assertiveness, it's the road to destruction. I commented before that I also think opening the door between your rooms and sleeping on her floor are also passive aggressive. You're seeing how much you can take from her while still avoiding conflict. You're testing her boundaries and that is annoying. If she leaves the phone book out on your desk tell her to put it away directly.