Again, I'm sure some of what I posted about above falls under the 'believe none of what you hear and only 50% of what you see' rule.
I'm trying to avoid equating what I hear her saying as progress, because I just don't see any action there yet. She does seem appreciative of the acts of service - which was her biggest complaint that she has voiced. Overall, I do believe her to be very confused still, with no real idea of what she wants or even how to get to a point where she can decide.
The restaurant issue is a huge albatross on her back right now. She's never been one to admit when she was wrong, or for that matter when I was right about something we disagreed on. So her statement today was kind of a milestone.
And when it all boils down, it could end up that she simply sees this as a friendship - and I suppose that's fine. I'll be alright either way, though it's certainly not what I'm working for - but that's a risk we take...
