I know, right?

This was mentioned twice during exploratory conversations we had while out walking on Saturday mornings. One was when our taxes came up and whether we'd file jointly or separately, and what the rules were, and I asked him if he had a timeframe or idea of when he wanted to be divorced and he said he didn't care about that, mostly just the separation agreement. On another occasion I apologized because my convention coinciding with my mom's grave illness had really set back my time available to think about responding to the draft separation agreement and I'd need more time if he would allow it, and he indicated that it was ok and he was not in a hurry.

Anyway, lack of hurry then doesn't indicate anything about where he is now, really. I just know he's not asking me to hurry up, at this point.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.