ad,

I fully understand your honoring of the legal contract aspect of a M - I agree with that. I also understand your aggravation over the $250 - I'd be absolutely furious. Like you, I would most likely not make any comments about it as there would simply be no positive resolution.

Originally Posted By: adinva
He has told me before he has no interest or timeframe or hurry to be divorced, that part he said didn't matter to him, he really was mostly interested in the financial separation.


The questions below are mostly rhetorical...

I can't say I understand this at all. Does he know how you feel about your definition of M? Obviously you care if there's OW involved. Would he care if you had OM? What's the point being in a big hurry for financial separation if you're not going to follow thru with actual divorce?

Makes no sense.


Me: 44 ; W: 41
M: 24 ; T: 25
D:23, D:22, D:13
Divorce papers filed