Originally Posted By: lostforever
I know this is very stupid but im sure I am not the only one that thinks this. If I stop contacting her she will just move on. the saying is out of sight out of mind....


We all think this. The thing is, our spouses can "move on" no matter how much we contact them. That's just the reality.

Hold tight for now... she didn't even reply to your last text, why would you try again? It looks needy. -Very unattractive.

Wait until you talk to your coach.

Now go out and do something fun or constructive. Doctors orders.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl