The longer I've been working on me the more I seem to uncover that I can improve within me.
The process gets easier, sometimes it's actually fun because now I enjoy life so much more.
This work has also helped me deepen my R with my sons, I've gone from the controlling, fearful, rule bound mom to one they can share things with, one they want to go places with, one they seek out for advice.
I, too am married until the courts tell me I'm not. I'm not clinging to anything but rather respecting the vows I took. I made a mistake once of not respecting them and at that time recommitted to "from this day forward."
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss