Your W doesn’t care about how you feel right now. She only cares about her negative feelings. When you try to reassure her about your feelings, you are trying to communicate to her that you want something different from what she wants. Right now she wants to pull away. Let her, agree with her. Don’t tell her that you miss her. Just be friendly.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
