Wife privileges reinstated, back in my own bed!

[mamabird]

I've recorded the snoring. He knows. It hasn't made a real impact though.

Breakdown, you are right that I need to be cognizant of and focused on the way I say things. It's a universal issue for me, not just with H. With the kids too. I k ow I need to work on it.

SS, why were the 3 guys worth a mention? Because I need to know I still "got it", even if I just smile and walk away. It's important for my ego. I don't get that kind of reinforcement from H.

Had a session with my IC this am and he helped me figure out that all ofmy complaints about H boil down to a lack of engagement. He's engaged with the kids, with work, but not with me or in tune with any sort of logistics. This leaves me feeling very vulnerable and alone. That's the crux of it, right there. Something to bring up in our next MC tomorrow.