Don't ask. That's not detachment.

You mentioned that getting an answer will help you move on and give you a reality check.

Why?

You don't need him to help you make that decision. Moving on (or as I like to say moving forward) is a step you take for YOU.. not H.

You can still DB
You can still keep the road home paved and smooth
You can still firmly stand for your M

Moving forward isn't about giving up.. It's about giving hope to yourself. It's about opening yourself up to all this life has to offer YOU.

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.