Ad thx for the post. I appreciate your ongoing support. I also wish you luck in your sitch and personal growth.

Ad the bottom line is my W was not wrong with all her assessments about me. Do I think all her views were correct? HELL no. I am almost glad this happened to me. It made me realize that I need to make a lot of personal growth changes in myself.

Do I think my W being home for 7 years with 2 kids came into play to our issues. yes. There was a ton of moving parts here. At the end of the day I am owning mine and by me doing this I am becoming a better person.

EE.org has changed my life. For example. I was on the phone for 1 hour today on my ride into work getting support from an EE grad unrelated to my W. (my mother actually). I look at things completely different. 25 said it was life changing and for me it is.

I think if I went back and reviewed all my posts I would see how pathetic, self centered, victimized I was. I prefer not to do this.