mr bond, i,m trying to deal with my issues and become a better man. the advice i get from most of my friends is the same ole line, forget her she,s not worth it! but in my heart i know there is a great person in her. we were best friends and did everything together for the last 15 years.we had a text exchange yesterday and on one hand she was saying her life was great and on the other hand telling me she doesnt want to speak to our son ever again. i asked her why becuase he wont go along with your lies? this would be easier if i just moved on but i still have some hope we could start new.