When she comes home ask "how was your evening." She says whatever she says. You can respond +/or validate, depending on what the answer is, just don't dig for details.
If you're being who you want to be and feel good about that, what she thinks of you is her business.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
