Are you seeing her the day after tomorrow anyway? If so, I think this question can wait. I think Advinva script is great though. You could use it the next time you want clarification ab something.

It sounds as if perfume may be a relatively safe present in your sitch but I would be amazed if my H gave me perfume. Even though we're together, it would still seem like a romantic present. What was the context when you gave it to her before?

It does sound as if your R is evolving into something better. Keep doing what you're doing.

Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012