I have/had a tendency to be passive aggressive. When I would be upset/mad I would pull away, clam up and just not communicate. So for part of my 180s I am working in this. But here is the problem.
When W comes home from being out I try not ask many questions because early on she said I was smothering her. But I am afraid that she will read this as me being the same ole Grizz and being passive aggressive by not asking her how things went. I am not sure which way to proceed. Keep quiet so I don't smother her but this is read as being passive aggressive or ask how her night was, how OUR friends are, etc to just try to be friendly and run the risk that I am prying and smothering her.
Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
