I immediately pull over and she had vomited strawberries all over herself and her carseat.
I was freaking when I read the first part, thought it was blood! Thank goodness it was strawberries, LOL!
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but he cleaned up the living area and asked if there was anything else I needed help with. It was awesome. And I told him that.
Good, I was going to ask if you did that. We all need ackowledgement when we do things like this, it makes it that much more likely that we'll do it again
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DB served it's purpose, but now I'm not sure where to go to learn to forgive.
I don't know of any resources for you, but I do want to mention that Michele's comments about forgiveness in DR were a big help to me. Something she said that really stuck with me is that forgiveness is NOT about forgetting. You can forgive someone while still remembering and learning from what happened. IE, you can tell your H you forgive him, but you can also tell him that your boundary is that it can never happen again because if it does there will be no 3rd chance. Some people think that "forgiveness" is acting like it never happened, but that's not the case at all.
And by the way, Michele also talks about how forgiveness is for YOU. It's you letting go of that hurt, it's you saying to YOURSELF that you forgive the trespass and will now move on. She says forgiveness doesn't even require saying anything to the other person. It can be purely internal.
