Hey 25, just wanted to say that even if Bruce never gets it, and even though I have had my reservations about telling him what actions and words to use to get closer to his goals when inside he is still the person his wife left...
Your incredible volume of help here falls on many many ears and is so helpful at least to me. A book I read once, twice maybe, and work on implementing over time. Your words here have been repeated and repeated, and rehashed and reworded daily, so many times it's like drips of water that can eventually carve stone. I appreciate how much you stay on message and reiterate lessons learned that really helped you and others. People tell me I've helped them sometimes and it's usually because I'm telling them things I learned from you. Thanks for persisting here.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
