findingself, your sitch is fairly new. I also don’t know where I stand with my H after 7 months of separation after BD. He’s been giving me some mixed signals too.

You seem to be doing all the right things. Keep it up. Don’t bring R talk, go out, take care of yourself. Patience is the key here.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state