Looking for a little advice and support

[cbtdad]

Thanks Findingself! I know how that feels. My W said a couple days after BD that she doesn't think she could ever love me again. That our S was actually happier when I wasn't home and that he never asked about me when I was gone. Those words stung. And she said them anger. So when I heard not to believe every thing they say it did make me feel better at least:) I know she said it outbid anger.
A couple of weeks ago she said, "I'm happy being friends. I don't want to feel this way. I'd rather be happy as a family. I just don't know what can possibly change that" I knew not to take that to the extreme one way or the other.
I think we all want to believe that we've truly changed so quickly and that things can work out with our spouses, but I guess the reality is that this does take time for true change and takes time for he anger or hurt to go away from the other side.
So we all need Patience!! One foot forward and having patience.
You can do it! We can do it!
Oh and a glass of wine does help every once in a while:)