Well look at it this way...at least she is giving you some hope early on, mine is telling me he thinks he can never see us together...making me have very little hope...he wants to make sure not to give me hope he says...thanks!

I am trying to tell myself the more time the more H might really believe in the changes that I have done...I know my H he is thinking any change right now is fake...and saying to himself if she could change so quick now...why didn't she do it earlier...

There just so much up in the air in our lives and almost all of the control is in anothers hands it feels like, I try to look at what I can control day to day, minute to minute seems to help me along with a glass of wine!


ME:33 H:34
S: 18 months

BD/H left 2/10/2013
14 years together
9 married