Major backslide

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Hurt the advice I would offer is not to be in a rush to do or resolve anything. If you panic about getting her to come home you will likely be willing to compromise on what you need -- in which case it will just fester and blow out again later.

Put yourself in the driver's seat -- what would W say if you told her you're not ready to talk on Thursday, or that you're not ready for her to move back home? Would that be a 180 to be the one who is not the first to compromise or capitulate?

Remember, do what works. If what you were doing wasn't working do something else. You already have a crisis so turn it to your advantage by surprising her and making her wonder. You are a prize worth working for, act like it!