Can someone help me understand why evn though W says she wants to work on it at some point it seems like I'm having a harder time not thinking about it? I know it's gonna take time and patience. But I'm having these fears and anxiety about whether I'm going to actually get that chance. I feel like the more time goes by the worse chance we have at reconciling things. I would have thought by her saying he does want to work on things at some point it would be easier for me to focus on me and not think about it. Ugh!!!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it