Living, Getting the Paperwork Started (20 months)

[BklynMom]

FWIW I totally share your experience with some drug experimentation and traveling etc, I too agree it is part of growing into an adult. I think you are handling this situation very well, making consequences for your son and being forth right in the real effects of pot #1. being lack of motivation.

My thoughts on the sex store receipt. Advina, whether he is buying the sexy clothes for a lady or just sexy stuff for his own fun, isnt it obvious now that this whole crisis is about him and has very little to do with you & what a bad wife you were.

You have spent months fixing yourself, which yes needed to be done but now step back and look at what is really broken here & thats him.

It is strange for your H to be so not intouch with his own sexuality that you were in a sexless marriage and now he is into sex toys or what not.

You have done everything you can repair your damaged marriage but your H does not want it fixed he wants something else.