AZ, I do compliment my W but not nearly as much as I used to (prior to BD). I don't know, doing it now seems like I am just trying to score some points with her so I haven't been doing it as often. Seems like she may think of it as pursuing.
VG, I don't really think she is doing it on purpose or playing games. That was kind of said tongue in cheek. It is just very confusing and frustrating.
Forever, I so hope that I can be strong enough to QUIETLY be the husband she wants. I agree that her staying out of guilt is not good for anyone. She does feel guilty right now and I know this. I also truly know that she is sad and hurting about this entire sitch. It is alot to give up. We have put alot into this M.
One of my biggest problems throughout is that I will be cold, detached (not in a good way), pout and mope around. I have improved this recently and I need to continue to improve this. The past 2 days have been pretty good with communication and just being relaxed around the house. I hope this continues.
Thanks again for checking in.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
