ugh....i get that bkyn.....my h's career seems to be taking off again.....he had a slump for a few years (left his job to try something else) while he did i took as many gigs as i could so he could "follow his dream" when that failed he returned to his first gig for years they made little and i was the main source of income not that he is gone they seem to be picking up momentum while i take less gigs because my son needs stability he is being adored and traveling and everything seems to be going great for him yay........