All of this recreation of our history, to him it's all real. And maybe part of it is - I've apologized - move on and quit bringing it up.
Boy, do I understand this sentiment. But to the WAS, it IS real - whether it's logical, true, false, a lie, fantasy or whatever. But, they appear to need something to cling onto to justify their anger.
Originally Posted By: LMF
I have been in contact with the other guy. Yes, I realize this doens't help my situation, but I'm really about over it all. H saw some on the phone records and again made contact with the other guy - threatening him about messing with his wife. Isn't it funny how he chooses when I am his wife and when I am not?!And in a strange turn of events other guy called my H, apologized, whatever.
Yes, it is VERY ironic how they act when the roles are reversed. Obviously he has something going on he feels he has to defend otherwise why would he go on a text rampage in the first place? Has he exhibited fits of anger in the past? And how did that affect you?
Just curious; I have read your sitch, and many others so I can't recall every detail... You can tell me it's none of my business if you like.
