Looking for a little advice and support

[cbtdad]

Thanks for the tips AS!!
I am going to continue to work on my patience and strive to get better with that. I definitely did affirm that "i understand why she feels that way and that I dont want to be like that anymore. Thats what I am working on"
She actually texted me an hour after we spoke and asked to meet up again. She informed me that she was still stressed. I got the chance to reaffirm that it is ok and that no matter if we make it or not it will be fine. I tild of course I would like to go to the RetroV here locally because its closer and so would the follow up sessions be, but that if we dont get to go that is completely fine. Then she ended bringing up other thins as well and it gave us a chance to discuss more things. THe bottom line is that she said she wants to try and work on this marriage at sometime whether it be in RetroV or with MC, but she just isnt ready.
I told her quite frankly neither am I and that I would continue to work on myself and that she should continue to take care of herself. i said when the time is right we will work on it.
We both agree that we want to work on it at some point and not just walk away. We want to be able to look at S in the future and honestly say that we tried everything to stay together and have no regrets.
Now, patience patience patience patience