Looking for a little advice and support

[cbtdad]

Well so much for "going dim"
Haha
Wife texted me this morning that she hasn't called the RetroV people back and that she was stressed about everything about it. She asked if I could come see her to discuss.
So I got there and I asked her stresses and just listened.
She said she is jut stressed with everything going on and that he will be in Florida looking for a new horse mar 17th-21st and that will be emotional. Then to come back and do retrov weekend just seems like too much for her right now.
I told her that was ok and I completely understand. Told her that it may be too soon anyways( thanks AS!)
She said I say that, BUT that I will be upset or hold it against her if she doesn't go. I said nope! No one can force us to go. And it's perfectly fine if its too much right now.
She said she would at least call them to go over the statement in case she does decide to go last minute. I said sounds good. If we I great and if not there are always other weekends we can go to. Told her there was no reason to rush things.
Now I'm going back to "dim"
Lol