I'm starting to realize that. I texted her to let me know and to really think about retrovalle.
RetroV is not going to do much good unless she's really on board with reconciliation. Both spouses need at least a passing willingness to give the M a fighting chance for RetroV to be effective.
[quote]But if I don't get a response I'm thinking of deleting all my social media stuff from her so I can't stalk and drive myself crazy. She'll probably think I'm doing it out of spite but I'm really not.
Well what she thinks IS what matters here, and I agree with you, she will think you're angry at her for refusing to go to RetroV and attempting to punish her. My advice would be not to do anything at all. You have the power to quit snooping, you don't have to delete accounts and stuff.
Like Accuray said, just take some time off. Quit obsessing. Quit pressuring your W. Quit snooping. Take a break from the forums. Get out. Get a life!
