How should I interpret the following comment from my W, during a phone conversation this morning about our bills:

W: 'It's been a long time since we've had dual incomes. It's really nice to have both of our paychecks coming in on opposite weeks. Now we can get caught up and maybe do some things we haven't been able to for a while.

Me: Yes, I agree, it will definitely be nice.


This kind of comment I usually let go in one ear and out the other due to the 'nothing/50%' rule. But, she's made similar comments recently and I didn't respond any different.

Just wondering whether I should be making mental notes of these or taking them as cues that she might want to discuss the future. crazy


Me: 44 ; W: 41
M: 24 ; T: 25
D:23, D:22, D:13
Divorce papers filed