Basically, I've been doing 100% of everything for the past 3 days, including packing, driving, hauling luggage, unpacking, shopping, cooking, washing dishes, laundry... etc. Now granted H can't really do much because he's pretty laid up, and I don't expect him to do anything. But when I asked him to help with the boys - just direct them, manage them - so I could put away groceries and make dinner - he was snotty about it. His response to my request was "Right."
Didn't we talk about "how things are said" a while back? Did you say, "honey, I know you are hurting, but do you think you could direct the boys for a little bit so I can work on dinner for us?" Or did all your frustration come out and fall on your H?
With regards to the snoring, I like SS's idea of recording it.
