Thanks, Occy. I also get caught up in lyrics. I was going to work on Sat morning and heard a song on the radio that took me back and spent a few minutes crying in the parking lot. It was totally unexpected but there you have it. Our new perspective brings new understanding.

I'm happy to report that H is continuing his increased presence in S20's life.

I had a great convo with S23 and am continually amazed by the insight and understanding of this young man. I've always known he had an old soul.

I had disagreed with a decision he made about how he will be spending his summer (he's still in college and has 2 more semesters) With the help of my IC I was able to see that my disagreement was not about his choice but rather my fear and some of my own unmet needs from the past. It's interesting how that stuff can crop up when you least expect it but I knew in my gut that something was up. I need to pay more attention to my gut.

S and I were able to have a great discussion about it and now we know each other better than before.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss