Thanks for the reply FloydMan - I don't think I put too much pressure on her to be honest - I think she would just find it so much easier if she didn't have to have anything to do with me...

I can't mind read but I do think she feels an awful lot of guilt - who wouldn't? I've also believed that she would of worked on our marriage if OM wasn't involved...

These days it's like she doesn't even want to be in the same room me, even see me and I'm sure that's easier for her - when she does see me she tends to get rather emotional.


W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013